Earthquake

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 Just when I feel that I see a light at the end of the tunnel, a big earthquake comes and enclosed me in again. I’m really sick of feeling like I’m a failure. I just keep screwing up as a mom. My kids hate me. I try so hard to be nice and do fun things or do things to strengthen our relationships and I feel like the devil is literally sitting on my kids shoulders to completely set me off and ruin the nice plans I had. EVERY TIME!!! When am I going to be able to enjoy me kids? My oldest is 12! The rate I’m going she will end up hating me for the rest of her life. I hate myself today. I feel like curling up in my bed and ignoring everything around me. Maybe that’s why God gave  me such  needy children, so I wouldn’t do that. They get me out of bed every day. I hate depression. Why do I have to get so angry? Why !!!! 

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